I'm not sure how best to do this...

I love these two. Don't worry, Ez, you'll get your due. I'm constantly overcareful about not preferring one kid or the other. It is nice that both are such strong personalities and that one is a boy, and the other is a girl. Also, since the boy reminds me of narcissistic self and the girl reminds me of the older girl whom I worship, it is difficult to prefer one over the other.